Will you agree that true love exists ?
We have some great love stories like romeo and juliet Heer -Ranjha and Soni-Mahiwal. In all the stories TRUST AND FAITH was there . And they are popular in world because they are exceptional people and it was an exceptional story .Let me explain why TRUST and faith are not so common in today’s world. You can’t trust anything . All the laws in the countries are changing. Russia is turning to be more democratic.Who knows ?The united states of america might turn to communism. last year ,the year before last , and today things are different .Countries and system you cannot TRUST. people around you your own husband or wife you cannot trust. Even your own senses you cannot trust.Your senses deceive you every minute.You look at sun.The sun appears to go up and down ,It appears to be going around the earth.It is not so .Your eyes give you wrong information.your eyes deceives you.You eat something sweet and then drink tea with sugar in it .How your tounge deceives you! It says ,there’s no sugar in this tea! You cant trust your tounge.You cant trust your ears .your ears say it is very silent but there is so much noise in room.All the radio stations all the electromagnetic waves are passing through.Only our sense of hearing is limited.You cannot trust your own senses You cannot trust your own body You cannot trust your own mind. This very body which u clean it day and night , perfuming it, Putting on nice clothes is going to deceive u one day.So don’t feel hurt if somebody your boyfriend or girlfriend has let you down. Your own body is going to let you down that’s the law of nature.
So you cant trust anything .Either you go to total trust ,and trust everything or trust no thing It leads you to the same point. Somebody your boyfriend or girlfriend is going to let you down.When you cannot trust anything around you .When trust and faith is not so common in today’s world, will u agree that true love exists???
If love does not exist in today’s world what is that is occupying 70% of a relationship ? iTs physical desire.Love is a different thing and Physical desires are something else.In 70 % of relationship people are not sure weather they are in love or they are just together for physical desire.
When a bud breaks it becomes flower and when a heart breaks it becomes divine . A flower cannot break.What breaks is the bud and it breaks for Good.What you thought was love ,was not love . In true love there is no heart break.A broken heart means Broken demands ,Broken Expectations, broken hopes.
how can love break ? Love cannot break . Can water break ? water is fluid Whatever is fluid is not brittle.Something that is stiff is brittle It can be broken.So only demands Expectations and Hopes are broken not heart .True intimacy is to take for granted that you are intimate.They belong to you and you to them.Don’t make any effort to convince the other person that you love them.
Our difficulty is that we express our love too much .So when we express our love too much after a while there is nothing more to express. You have expressed everything it has emptied . You may say ” oh beautiful I love u so much ” but they are just words, thoughts. Nothing is happening inside.Something is not following there, we are not sincere.So we try to give an idea to another person.”Yes i really love u ” When it is not following u try to show them that u still love them and that more love is happening there.But u know very well that something that had happened before is no longer there.So we just recognize this fact .
There can be two things in this world one is indifference another is love.Youcan be indifferent to somebody or you can love somebody.Love can take any flavour.The dimensions of understanding is always different but wrote my perception to explain everything that i know about relationship.
(The article is contributed by Bipin Sasi however some of the excerpts are taken from the discourse of SriSri )
